TOLLMAN TO BE REMEMBERED: A private memorial service will be held for Annabel Tollman Friday at 2 p.m. at Grace Church in Manhattan. Family and friends of the British stylist, who called New York home, will then gather for a reception at The Four Seasons restaurant. Tollman died Thursday in her downtown apartment. In lieu of flowers, the family has asked that donations be made to Millie Mittoo Children’s Projects, a London-based organization that helps orphaned children.